What is domestic violence?

Domestic violence is violent behaviour of any kind within a family or a relationship. This includes one family member abusing another or violence between a couple in a relationship.

One form of domestic violence is child abuse. This is when a child or young person is harmed, neglected or bullied by an older adult. You don't have to be physically hurt to be a victim of child abuse.

If you're constantly being sworn at, teased or told that you're unwanted, this may also be classed as emotional abuse.

Teenage relationship advice

A recent NSPCC survey showed that a quarter of girls and 18 per cent of boys have experienced physical violence in a relationship.

Abuse in teen relationships doesn’t just cover physical violence. Other examples of this type of abuse include:

  • pressuring a partner into having sex
  • controlling behaviour
  • unnecessary jealousy or anger

Remember that abuse in a relationship is never okay. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect from their partner.

The 'This is Abuse' website (see below) has more information about:

  • what behaviour counts as abuse
  • how to recognise the signs of abuse
  • the organisations who can help you if you’re being abused by your partner

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